How to Deal with Chronic Complainers
We have all met them, people who are never happy. Here are tips on how to deal with chronic complainers in a way that improves you.
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Instructions
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First realize that they were pessismists and complainers before they met you, and likely will be after. You can not change them, only yourself.
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Next try to understand the underlying cause. They are likely holding to a belief or value such as they were shafted for a promotion. Try to figure what this is so that you can address it with them.
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Next look at yourself. Are you being a bit negative? If you are then work on this because your negativity can impact everyone around you.
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Talk to negative people and go the extra mile for them. Make sure to treat them with respect and extra kindness. This may be tough but just do it. Eventually they will be shocked and start reciprocating.
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Last but not least protect yourself. make sure that you surround yourself with positive people most of the time so that you do not catch their negativity.
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Tips & Warnings
Analyze yourself
Realize you can not change them
Improve yourself
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time to work on your chronic complaining and negativity!
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this is selfish. I am trying to help my wife in her pain not to "secure" myself.
