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Step 1
Relax and be yourself. It has probably been said so many times but many just seem to forget it when they meet someone. It's OK to make a good impression on someone but it may get weird for the guy weeks later when you start to act like the real you.
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Step 2
Take care of yourself. You don't have to spend hours in a make-up chair (some men like women who don't wear make-up) while weeks on a diet. But if you do not care about what you look like when you step out the door than you will simply attract men who don't care about what you look like either. You will find men only wanting you for all the wrong reasons.
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Step 3
Really take a look within who you are. There are many women who find men to fill a gap in there unhealthy lives. They only seek a man to seduce so she can feel fulfilled in some way. You will have to really think about why you want a man so bad. Is it because you feel ugly? Because you want someone to have a connection with? Because someone told you that you were not pretty?
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Step 4
Most of all, do not play any games. A good man does not want to play games with women. NO deception or mistrust or mind games will get a real man. Be yourself and be real if you want someone who will respect who you are. You can say, "Oh but men only like the chase." That is true, but no one wants to be running around in a rat maze.
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Step 5
Respect him and he will respect you. If he doesn't respect then leave him because a good man will do the same to you.
