How to Find a Decent Man Instead of a Loser
I'd like to say that finding a good and decent man is easy, but unfortunately the old saying is true, "A good man is hard to find."
Most men mean well at the beginning of a relationship and so it's really hard to weed out the bad ones until it's too late. And there are some that you really don't know what their intentions are until later. By that time you are in deep and it is really hard to let go.
To avoid getting hurt and wasting your time with a man that might not be that good for you, here are some tips to help you figure out what kind of man you are with and how to make sure he is decent.
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What kind of relationship does he have with his mother? Okay, this sounds like the old cliche but if your man is good to his mother and respectful, he has a better chance of being a good catch. If he is a jerk or lies to his mother, run for the hills.
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Does he have sisters? Believe it or not, a man with sisters understands women better and can sometimes be a better catch. They are usually more patient and understanding of women and things that come along with them.
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Are all of his buddies single and are constantly cheating on or dogging their own women? If he is hanging out with a bunch of men without morals, then chances are he might stray as well.
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Does your man talk about your future together or make long term plans to be with you? Does he talk about children? These men are serious and aren't afraid to commit. If you've been together for a long time and he avoids talks about commitment, then take caution. And if you want kids and he definitly doesn't, don't pressure him into it. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want kids when you do. After you have kids there is so much more stress and you will need all the help you can get.
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