How to Tell if a Guy really Likes you

Dating can be confusing, frustrating, and all together exhausting if you don't tackle it in the right mindset. Once you have found a guy who you deem worthy of your time, you might start wondering if he really likes you or not. Here are some ways examine your relationship and find out if a guy really likes you.

Instructions

1. He keeps his promises.

   If a guy really likes you, he does what he says he will; he follows through. If you have a flaky fella, don't waste your time wondering if he likes you because he likely isn't willing to put in the time and effort that it takes to make a relationship work.

2. He listens.

   When a guy really likes a girl, he listens carefully to her. You can tell by his body language that he is listening; his shoulders will be pointed towards you, and he will likely be nodding and asking questions as you talk.

3. He remembers the little things.

   If he remembers the little things while you are dating; where you had your first kiss, your favorite color, and birthday, he might just really like you. When dating someone we really like, we tend to retain information about the other person (even the useless information!) rather than just disregard those little details.

4. He knows you well.

   If he knows your little quirks (the fact that you always like to sit on the outside of the restaurant booth or that you are scared of heights) then he has been paying attention to you; what you say and the way you react to different everyday situations. If he knows your favorites, your fears and your otherwise unique personality traits, he probably really likes you.

5. He treats you with upmost respect.

   If you are dating a guy who treats you anything less than 100% respectful, kick him to the curb; it's not worth your time. However, if you have a guy who treats you well and makes certain that you know that you are important to him, he may just be worth keeping around. Arguing is okay, but there should never be any forceful or harmful physical contact, or yelling that makes you feel unsafe.

6. He introduces you to friends and family.

   When a guy you are dating invites you to meet friends and family, that means that he is invested in you, he really likes you. He is making you a part of his life by introducing you to his family, and he probably really likes you.

7. He communicates with you.

   If you are totally and completely in the dark about whether or not a guy you are dating likes you, you might just want to call it quits. Dating is supposed to be fun, and it can be a bit of a game, but, it should not be that difficult, either. A good guy who really likes you will likely be able to let you know that he likes you through his own words and his own actions.