How to Attract Women Through Body Language in 3 Steps
Many women form impressions of a man just moments after an introduction. This doesn't leave a lot of time to engage in witty banter or make your charm, intelligence and integrity apparent. As a result, your body language becomes very important in determining whether or not a woman will be attracted to you. Even after first impressions are over, the way you conduct yourself physically can make the difference between a friendship and a relationship.
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Move with confidence by observing yourself closely. Consider filming yourself to eliminate nervous tics that may be subconscious, such as bouncing your leg, fidgeting with your clothing or picking at your nails. Take up space to claim your territory and assert your dominance in social situations; for example, if you are in a restaurant's waiting area, lean back with your hands behind your head and extend your legs in front of you. Invoke the instinctual tendency in animals to recognize an alpha, as such dominance and confidence is attractive to many women.
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Practice good posture. Don't slouch when sitting or walking, and constantly remind yourself to keep your shoulders back, chest out, and chin up. Good posture not only conveys health and confidence, it can also make you appear taller and accentuate features such as a toned chest or shoulders, which are likely to attract women.
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Enter a woman's personal space if you believe she may be interested. A woman often communicates attraction to a man by incorporating playful physical contact into conversation, such as placing her hand on his arm. Use flirty movements like bumping shoulders or touching and admiring a scarf or accessory she is wearing.
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Tips & Warnings
Practice these techniques with friends before executing them in public. Tailor your body language until you are satisfied with your execution of these strategies.
Talk to your female friends about physical cues that make men attractive. Advice from the source is likely to be illuminating.
Before entering a woman's personal space, ensure that she does not find you threatening and welcomes closer physical contact. For example, if a woman laughs and puts her hand on your shoulder when you tell a joke, you can assume she is comfortable with you respectfully entering her personal space. However, if she stands several feet away from you and backs up if you step closer, respect her choice to remain distant.
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