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Step 1
Pay attention to his habits. Can you spot any lies in his stories? If he says he is going to hang out with some guy friends, is he really where he said he was going to be? Make a note of the things he says so that you can catch him in a lie if there are inconsistencies in his story later.
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Step 2
Check up on his MySpace or Facebook. Girls are often dumb, and if they are cheating with your boyfriend, they may just be dumb (or bold) enough to leave him a sweet message on his page. Make a list of suspicious girls on his page and check their profiles out. Also keep track of any new friends that are females, and check them out as well. You may want to ask him who these girls are.
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Step 3
Ask him if you can look through his phone. This will make you appear freaky and controlling, but if you have no other choice, go for it. Do not look through his phone if he doesn't allow you to. That is wrong. And if he is hesitant about letting you look through his phone, this could be a signal that something is going on. He may not want you to see something. Of course, he could just like his privacy too.
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Step 4
Follow him. This is slightly stalkerish, so I really wouldn't recommend it. But if you have reason to believe that he is with someone else at a particular time, follow him and see where he goes.
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Step 5
Talk to his friends. Many guys are dumb and will spill the beans if one of their "boys" is cheating on his girl. Some of course will be true until the end, but you are guaranteed to find one in the bunch who will let you know.
Comments
Elizabethknows said
on 6/18/2009 great tips but please do not accuse someone unless you know for sure. 5*