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How to Improve Your Sex Life With Just a Few Easy Steps

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Your sex life will improve greatly with these few tips
Your sex life will improve greatly with these few tips

If you are in a relationship and the sex is just not working out the way you have planned it to, take a little advice from some of us who have great sex lives. It does not take much to have a great sex life at all, just a few little tips and you to will be back to enjoying sex with your partner in no time.

Difficulty: Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Honesty
  • Lingerie
  • Foods
  • Erotic toys
  • Pornography
  1. Step 1
    Your sex life will be black & white if no one talks !
    Your sex life will be black & white if no one talks !

    No matter what kind of relationship you are in, if you are having sex the first thing that you have to remember is to be honest and up front about what you like and dislike. Nobody is going to enjoy anything if they are in the dark, open up and talk about what you enjoy.

  2. Step 2
    Pornorgraphy can bring many new, exciting ideas.
    Pornorgraphy can bring many new, exciting ideas.

    Take you and your partner to the adult book store around the corner and rent or buy some pornography. Some of the best ideas can come from watching other people. Before you knock it, you have to try it, then you can say you either like it or don't !

  3. Step 3
    Erotic toys allow couples to explore, enjoy and pleasure one another.
    Erotic toys allow couples to explore, enjoy and pleasure one another.

    While your out at the adult book store, be sure and check out the selection of erotic toys they have to offer. Take your time, talk out which one might be fun to try, and go from there. Do not limit your sex life with your partner, explore and enjoy one another.

  4. Step 4
    Dirty talk can go a long way.
    Dirty talk can go a long way.

    Talk dirty to each other throughout the day. My husband will text, email, leave me notes and leave me phone messages on those days that are just too long and lonely. By the time you both are home, the intense feelings are very present.

  5. Step 5
    Sensual foods can make your night more sensual.
    Sensual foods can make your night more sensual.

    Go out and buy some beautiful fruits and feed each other them. Just like the movie 9 1/2 weeks, make it an erotic experience for the both of you. You will be amazed at how sexy someone can look eating a strawberry.

  6. Step 6
    Anyone can look good if they try.
    Anyone can look good if they try.

    Go out and buy some sexy lingerie. No matter how you are built, all women can go out and buy something sexy for themselves. Surprise your partner by coming out of the bathroom with a beautiful laced nightie. I bet all eyes will be on YOU !

  7. Step 7

    Last but not least, if you partner is not doing something right or if it does not feel right, TELL THEM ! One of the major reasons people have bad sex is because they allow it to be bad. Open your mouth and tell them exactly how you want it.

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tnpos said

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on 6/29/2009 I like that movie 9 1/2 weeks. Great Stuff! I like the photos. 5 for this. PAL

xrayness said

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on 6/17/2009 Thanks for sharing!

dazedaze said

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on 6/16/2009 hehehe, i blushed reading most of this.. ill try it though....heheh

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on 6/16/2009 never underestimate the importance of lingerie.

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on 6/13/2009 I so need this advice. Between work and play...well I've become "tired" all the time. Nice reminder and motivation. 5*s

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