How to Not Date a Married Man - Relationship Advice

Do you feel special because you are secretly seeing married men or a married man? Yeah-you know he is married, but then again, he is everything you want in a man. Besides this, it is obviously you are fulfilling his needs; he is with you. Of course, it is his wife's fault. If she were doing her job, he would not be spending time with you. So- it is not your fault. Yeah, right! Following are four steps on how not to date a married man and be the 'other woman' in a relationship.

Things You'll Need

• Self-esteem
• Love for yourself
• Compassion: Treating others as you would want to be treated

Instructions

1. First - respect and and love yourself. Yes - I know that you may have heard relationship advice before, but respecting and loving yourself mean that you do not have to settle for being in a secret relationship. If he respects and cares so much about you, as you claim, he would be proud to show you off to everyone. Besides, why settle for leftover time?

2. Second - value other women's relationship. Valuing other women's relationships means if a man is dating or married, he should be hands-off. Are you so desperate that you feel you have to interfere in another one's relationship? If you do 'take him' as you claim, what have you really taken? Single women - always remember, the way you got him, for payback can be something else.

3. Third - stop lying to yourself. Since he is lying to his wife, do you really think he is being truthful with you? Perhaps-you think that you are so special that he would not lie to you. Wrong! Ask yourself: What characteristics do you want in a man? The same lies that you helped your married man cococt for his wife will be the same ones he uses on you later when he finds someone else to play the fool.

4. Fourth - count the cost, for what is done in the dark will eventually come into the light. It may take years, but it shall come into the light. Therefore, ask yourself the following questions. If my family and his family found out, how would I feel? How would I feel about myself? Would the married man leave his family to be with me? What type of relationship then do I think we will have? In sum, single dating may be difficult at times; however, only you can choose to forego a single woman married man relationship.