How to Throw a Good Bachelorette Party
Bachelorette parties provide the bride-to-be with one last night of carefree excitement with her closest girlfriends. Although the activities, participants and locations vary, the purpose of every bachelorette party is for the guests, especially the bride-to-be, to have a memorable time. Consider it an honor to be the girlfriend in charge of throwing this event. Put on your party hat and thinking cap to come up with a party night worthy of rave reviews.
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Respect the wishes of the bride-to-be. Although it can be thrilling to plan a bachelorette party, it's essential not to let your vision take over the event planning. Talk to the bride-to-be and get her opinions about what constitutes a "good" bachelorette party. Ask candid questions, including her support or opposition for strippers, alcohol and controversial games and activities.
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Include plenty of outgoing guests at the bachelorette party. Keep spirits high by inviting entertaining participants. There will be other times for the bride-to-be to celebrate with more "reserved" members of her inner circle. Avoid inviting guests that won't participate in activities or that will make the bride-to-be feel uncomfortable. (Still, let the bride-to-be approve the guest list, to make sure that everyone who should be invited has been. She won't want to deal with the hurt feelings of friends who were left out.)
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Keep the festivities a secret from outsiders. Only discuss party plans with invited guests and swear them to secrecy. Avoid having party fun downsized or completely scrapped because of outside influences. This includes the groomsmen and the future husband.
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Indulge in energetic girl banter. Play interactive games such as "I Never" and "Truth or Dare" as icebreakers. Institute a "No Judgment Zone" and punish rule violators with outrageous dares. Wear distinctive shirts with flirtatious slogans such as "Buy Me a Drink" and "Girls Night Out" to promote unity. Consider sending the bride-to-be on a scavenger hunt for different items and situations. Getting the bride-to-be to sing strange song lyrics when certain words are spoken can be amusing.
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Make the bride-to-be blush without offending her too much. Although your goal is to respect the bride-to-be's wishes, don't allow her to dictate every aspect of the bachelorette party. Part of the fun is pushing boundaries in this controlled setting. Presenting her with lingerie and other "naughty" gifts can bring out the wild side of the party guests. Even if she is opposed to a stripper, she might be agreeable to private lap dance or strip tease lessons.
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Take the party on the road. Consider the bride-to-be's personality and wishes when selecting appropriate venues. Popular options include karaoke bars, male strip clubs and nightclubs. Call ahead to inquire about VIP sections and any additional perks. Rent a private limo or shuttle service for the evening so all guests can experience maximum thrills.
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Tips & Warnings
Take pictures and video clips throughout the night for hilarious party memorabilia. Consider making the bachelor party a weekend event by adding a slumber party at an upscale hotel. Pamper the bride-to-be with flashy presents, including a tiara and coordinating magic wand.
Don't allow the bride-to-be to speak to her fiancé during the bachelorette party. This could dampen her mood and slow down party activities.
