How to Get A Man To Ask You Out
You've had your eye on him for quite some time now, but he has yet to ask you out. You may be pining for him, but you need to show him some signs that you're interested. Turn your crush into a date by showing him your best side and engaging in some good, old-fashioned flirting. Body language and conversation can signal your availability and attractiveness to him, and he'll be asking you out in no time.
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Be your sexiest self. This doesn't mean wearing skintight clothes and stilettos -- in fact, that sort of outfit makes it seem like you're trying too hard. Wear a cute pair of jeans and some wedges, or any other clothes that you know make you look good.
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Use the right body language around him. Angle your body towards his when you're talking, smile and cock your head slightly to one side. These gestures signal interest. Don't cross your arms, as he might perceive it as a hostile posture. Always make eye contact with him.
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Take some initiative. If you're interested in a man, smile and say hello, whether you know him or not. Starting a conversation is the first step towards getting him to ask you out. If you're at a party, ask him how he knows the host. If you're at a bar, ask him about his favorite drink that they serve.
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Plant some date ideas in his mind. Find out what he's interested in -- soccer games, for example, and mention how you've been wanting to go see your local team play.
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Let him know subtly that you're available. Mention a single girls' night you and your friends had recently. Go out with a couple of girlfriends rather than male friends, who might confuse him.
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