Things You'll Need:
- patience and consciousness
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Step 1
Don't forget that saying I love you is wonderful, but showing and saying I like what you do, did and who you are speaks volumes and does wonders to a relationship to help build security in a partner. Take out moments daily to remind your mate that they are doing, did or do something you that made or makes you satisfied. Remember how it was when you were in the field of dating or dating each other? Ask yourself, how many times you can remember telling or showing your object of affection how you like them. Liking is a real compliment to love.
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Step 2
Giving of gifts is nice, but don't leave great and expensive gift giving to only major holidays, birthdays and anniversaries. Do something unexpected especially after a very romantic moment between the both of you. This will help reinforce how much you love and need your lover; how much you like, admire and want them in your life.
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Step 3
Speak of disappointments with care. This includes those that are not directly associated with the relationship you have. Love is funny. Make sure that your mate understands there is nothing they could do or could have done to help change your experience for instance that has mad you unhappy or disappointed. Express how you are merely conversing about a situation and that their ear is what you need at the moment.
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Step 4
Disagreements between the both of you need be discussed and spoken about in a caring way. 'Hate the game, not the player.' Express concern lovingly, ask for forgiveness, forgive, improve and keep it moving. Be thankful for the open lines of communication and honesty. Cherish it and every expression of caring and need.
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Step 5
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Comments
angelanyc said
on 9/5/2009 great tips!
cherry67 said
on 8/14/2009 great article thanks for this!