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How to Host a Memorial Brunch in Memory of a Loved One

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After the loss of a loved one or friend, holding a memorial brunch or luncheon in their memory is a wonderful way to bring people together. It is not a sad occasion because you are bringing everyone together to celebrate life and the love you each have for this person. Make it a time to bond with others and even form new relationships.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • A list of loved ones and friends to invite
  • Food, beverages and other supplies
  1. Step 1
    Invitations
     
    Invitations

    Start off by selecting a date and time to hold the brunch. You'll want to give everyone enough time to switch plans or schedule it into their week so that they can be a part of it. Consider the group that you are inviting as you pick a good time. For example, we held a memorial brunch for a fellow mother in our community who passed away recently. Since we were all moms that were coming, we picked a weekday midmorning that accommodated moms and their schedules.

  2. Step 2
    Brunch
     
    Brunch

    Next, put together a list of people to invite. You can mail invitations or email to everyone. Have everyone send a reply so that you have an idea of how many people you will be hosting. Ask everyone to bring a brunch food such as muffins, fruit, pastries, etc to contribute.

  3. Step 3
    Coffee and Tea
     
    Coffee and Tea

    As the host, make sure that you have coffee, tea, juices and sodas for your guests. Make sure you also supply the napkins, plates, cups and utensils.

  4. Step 4
    Flowers
     
    Flowers

    Make your home inviting to your guests. Clean up and make sure that there are places for everyone to sit. Consider people walking around when you decide where you will set up all of the food and drinks. It will need to be in a place where people can access it easily. Take the time to dress up tables and counter spaces with flowers, table linens and candles as well.

  5. Step 5
    Thank guests for coming
     
    Thank guests for coming

    Last, remember to take time to make a little announcement about coming together and thank everyone for being a part of such a special day. You can take a moment to say a few words about your loved one who you are there to celebrate but remember that you want to make it a celebration in honor of this person. Don't dwell on their loss as much as their life that they led and how wonderful it it is to see everyone coming together to talk and enjoy each other's company in honor of that person.

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veryirie said

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on 7/10/2009 This sounds like a wonderful idea to honor the memory of someone. Great suggestions!

kittycooks said

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on 6/30/2009 What a lovely idea. A brunch after the funeral and wake is a wonderful way to help survivors heal and process.

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on 6/2/2009 A memorial brunch is a lovely thought. Thanks for the well written article. 5*

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