How to Obtain Sole Custody of a Child

There are many reasons for wanting sole custody of your child. You feel the other parent is unfit, or the other parent is preparing to move out of state. Whatever the reason, your decision to seek sole custody should not be taken lightly and should be in the best interest of the child. Obtaining sole custody should be done as painlessly as possible for everyone involved.

Instructions

1. Get attorney referrals from your local office of the American Bar Association. Ask the association to recommend at least two lawyers who practice family law.

2. Meet with each attorney. Be certain to ask if the consultation is free before the meeting. Ask about experience, years in practice and what percentage of their practice deals with child custody cases. Pick the attorney you feel most comfortable with.

3. Get your paperwork in order and start a folder. Documents you may need include report cards, financial statements, medical records, birth certificate and any past court order. Anything relating to the child is information you should collect. Your attorney will help you with a list of paperwork you will need.

4. Keep your record clean. If you want sole custody of a child, you must be a responsible person. Driving under the influence or disorderly conduct can hurt your case.

5. Clear your schedule. You will need to have the time available to attend court hearings and appointments with your attorney.

6. Dress to impress anytime you are in court. First impressions are important. Judges take notice of your attire and often see that as a sign that you respect the court system.

Tips & Warnings

• Custody battles can be difficult and emotional. Shield your child from the unpleasantness as much as possible.