How to Get a Man to Fall In Love
There are a ton of books written about how to get married, how to catch a man, how to be more desirable etc. The fact is that getting someone to fall in love is relatively easy.
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To begin with I will not lie, you need to be attractive to the object of your desire. This does not mean you need to be a bombshell, attraction is a very subjective concept. That said, the first step to getting someone to fall in love with you is getting them interested in you as a person. This does not mean you need to be dating, in fact it is best if you are not.
Once you have the interest of your object of desire the rest is up to you. To begin with you will want to be sure you do not act meek, insecure, overly eager or anything that would make you look desperate. Men smell desperation from a mile away and men are inevitably turned off by desperation.
To explain a basic of attraction in a very simplified way let us look at the functions and the reality of attraction. Men and women are physically different. If a woman gets pregnant she KNOWS it is her baby whereas if a man gets someone pregnant he can only go by her word. So for a male fidelity is very important. If you are the local **** then forget any man taking you seriously. For men you will be a risk. Men do not consciously think of this but rather have this biologically programmed into their hard-wiring. If you are confident, relatively "hard-to-get" and different you will show the man that you are something special that not just anyone can have and he will want you more.
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Dressing and how you dress are important. Males and females, though we try to deny and move away from this, are inherently different for biological reasons. Accentuating your difference from him makes you more desirable as you are further to the other side of the gender spectrum. Long hair, make-up, nails, skirts or dresses and nice clothes and heels all make a woman more attractive to men. This is not about being politically correct, in biology political correctness has no place.
Acting feminine but not over the top is also important. You certainly do not want to challenge him to a game and win-yes the male ego is that fragile. You want to shape a sense of need. You want for him to feel like he needs to protect and take care of you, not the other way around.
Next you want to do exciting things with him. Go to an amusement park, go-car racing (he wins though!), walk across a high bridge or do something that will get both of your adrenaline going. It is a proven fact that men fall in love when they are scared or excited as the adrenaline mimics the same surge of hormones produced with love and if you happen to be there when this happens he will associate YOU with that feeling. So make sure your first dates are very exciting or scary.
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Finally you need to know how to listen. Men do NOT want to know all about you, even if they ask. Your going to have to put YOU second (for now, later you will have a chance to come first). Men love to be listened to and the more interested you are in the stories he has to tell, be them stupid stories about his friends or deep stories about his childhood, the more points you win. As you are talking make direct eye contact, even if he turns away. Eye contact evokes the same hormonal response as fear and excitement, it is like being stared down and it tells the man that you are confident and also that you scare/excite him which in turn translates again, to love.
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Tips & Warnings
These are basic biological rules translated into actions, but do be yourself.
Nobody that has NO interest in you is going to suddenly develop a deadly crush, even with the best of techniques. Attraction is necessary.
If you give in to sex too soon you will be considered easy in his sub-conscious-this is not sexism it is reality.
If you deviate from the above rules then he could lose interest. Do not show too much interest in him as this is a turn-off for men, they want to work to get you.
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