How to Become More Attractive to Girls
Becoming more attractive to women doesn't involve hours at the gym or a fancy car. Women are attracted to confident, interesting men who really listen to them and care about what they want. Becoming more attractive to women is a matter of working on your personality and social skills.
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Instructions
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Work on Yourself
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Become your best self. Stay active, eat healthfully and quit bad habits like smoking. This is not so you can more closely resemble Brad Pitt; rather, it's to cultivate your own self confidence -- the most important factor in attracting women. Women are drawn to men who are sure of themselves, and you'll feel more confident the healthier you get.
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Reevaluate your wardrobe. Women don't expect Armani suits every night, but they're turned off by ill-fitting jeans and ratty T-shirts. Wear clothes that fit (visit a tailor if you need to), and are clean and wrinkle-free. Buy classic clothing, such as dark jeans and crisp button-down shirts, rather than trendy pieces.
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Learn something new every day. The more you have to talk about, the more attractive women will find you. Read the headlines before you go out so you can be up to speed about current events. Take a class in something you're interested in to build your confidence and give you more to talk about.
Talking to Women
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Look women in the eye when you speak to them. This signifies respect and interest, which women appreciate. Staring at the floor makes you seem insecure, and staring at women's bodies is disrespectful.
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Be positive. Offer sincere compliments whenever you can about things unrelated to her appearance, whether it's her laugh, the joke she's just cracked or the volunteer work she does. Talk about things you're looking forward to and things you enjoy. Avoid complaining about your job, your finances, your family or anything else. Whining is a major turn off. Women are attracted to optimistic, cheerful men.
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Make her laugh. Take an improvisational comedy class if you're not confident about your sense of humor. Memorize one or two good jokes and try them out on your friends.
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Actively listen to her. Look her in the eye and nod every so often to show you're paying attention when she's speaking. Ask her meaningful questions about what she's just said rather than replying with "Uh-huh" or "Yeah." Avoid immediately switching the conversation to yourself and show genuine interest by responding thoughtfully to her remarks.
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Tips & Warnings
Confidence is key and arrogance is a turn off. Women don't like men who brag about themselves or put other men down.
Putting women down does not make you more attractive to them. Friendliness and kindness are much more attractive traits.
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Comments
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To everyone who reads this... this is sound advice! If you're starting out, the only thing I would add is to tease girls... specifically tease them like you would tease your little sister. It will get them laughing, and they love it!
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