Things You'll Need:
- computer with internet connection
- digital photos
- an optimistic attitude
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Step 1
Pick a username. Make it original and descriptive. Flirty is good too. Shy away from obviously sexual innuendos and bra size unless you're looking for casual play.
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Step 2
Pick two or more great photos of you. Make sure they are current. Doesn't matter how great a person you are, if you don't look like your photo (or better), you won't get a second date. Post a photo. Most people won't look at your profile if there's no picture.
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Step 3
Think about your assets and write about those. Also, never, ever say that you're on the site as a last resort. You'll offend the people who aren't ashamed to be online dating and you'll come across desperate to everyone.
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Step 4
Think about what you are looking for in a date/partner. List their assets and positive points. Don't focus on the things you don't want (no drama, no kids, etc.). Invariably, it attracts the exact people you aren't looking for!
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Step 5
It's a good idea to actual pay for member benefits. You don't have to do it long-term. A month or two is usually sufficient but you want to be able to send messages back and forth, flirt and actually get an online connection offline.
