How to Be Charming on a Date
A successful salesman knows the secret to business lies in personality, not products--he must first sell himself before he can sell his product. He must win trust and gain favor. Being kind, charming and practicing people skills like communication and manners make the difference. This logic can be applied to social situations as well as business. The charming date will win the heart of his partner with wit and a warm personality.
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Look at your date. Eye contact is important for establishing trust. A person who is engaged in conversation will focus on the face of his date. Looking about too often may suggest disinterest or boredom.
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Ask questions. Talking about things that interest the other individual will allow you to get to know her. Probing her world and piquing her interest can be achieved with conversation that hinges on her likes and dislikes.
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Remember and respond. A charming date will focus on the individuality of her date. Remembering his interest in art may prompt her to treat him to a day at the museum. His love of animals may inspire her to take him to the zoo.
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Use manners. A charming date will be considerate and kind. Turn off your cell phone, don't be rude to waiters and waitresses, and refrain from complaints. A negative individual will bring down the date. If the food is served cold and the check comes late, be polite at all costs.
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Compliment gently. Offer timely compliments, not over-the-top flattery. Too many compliments will seem superficial and may make the individual feel uncomfortable. Compliment your date's outfit, hair and smile. Don't say she's the most beautiful woman on earth or the sexiest man alive.
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