How to Get a Date With a Japanese Waitress
If you are like the millions of Americans who regularly dine at Japanese-inspired or Japanese-styled restaurants across the United States, you understand the joy of great Japanese cuisine. Well, why not combine love and cuisine by asking out a Japanese waitress at your favorite Japanese restaurant? Learn how you can ask out a Japanese waitress and find love in a matter of weeks.
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Instructions
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Question colleagues and associates about local Japanese restaurants. Narrow the list to three or four locations known for delicious, authentic Japanese cuisine.
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Arrange a company meeting or solo lunch date to become familiar with the wait staff and management team. Make several visits to speak with various staff members and get a sense of which waitress is most suited to your needs.
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Engage the Japanese waitress in conversation about the menu and specialty items. Start a conversation about one or two authentic, signature dishes on the menu or speak generally about authentic Japanese cuisine with which you are familiar. Offer a humorous tale about a previous attempt you made to prepare Japanese cuisine or charm her with details of a perilous encounter you had while working in a poorly run Japanese-style restaurant.
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Ask her to make recommendations based on her preferences and agree to try these selections. This will allow her to follow up with you to determine if the selection was satisfactory. Praise her for each selection, and affirm your appreciation of her "enthusiastic and friendly" service.
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Leave a generous tip, and return often to establish yourself as a regular. If possible, order the same preferred meal several times to establish a pattern. By linking yourself to a meal or time of the day, she may, after a period of time, begin to expect your return and make efforts to give you priority over other customers.
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After several weeks, leave a short note with your phone number. Be brief and ask her out for lunch. Write, "I know a great, small Japanese restaurant. Call for reservations at [enter your phone number]. If I don't answer, leave your number on my machine. PS-I'd love to cook for you!"
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Tips & Warnings
Always make eye contact and smile during conversation to establish a good rapport and put the waitress at ease. Be friendly, and never discuss religion, money or sex during the conversation.
Avoid asking the Japanese waitress for a date during the first meeting. Instead, establish a rapport with her and return periodically, or regularly if your schedule allows, to lessen the awkwardness that could arise if you ask her for a date too soon. Never refer to the Japanese waitress as "Oriental."
