How to Make Every Man Want You

Men will clamor to be near you

If you're a single gal, looking for that special guy, think of how much easier it would be to meet *him* if everywhere you went, men were lined up to get your phone number.

Think it can't happen? Whether that's because you lack confidence, or because you believe "all the good ones are taken," let's explore the possibility that, with just a few steps, you can make every man want you. Can you keep an open mind and try out these steps? That's a great start to meeting the guy you've been longing for.

Instructions

1. Play up the positives. When's the last time you had a really great time with someone who complained non-stop, clearly didn't care about the way they looked, and pouted sullenly? The guys you meet feel the same way. So play up what's good in your life, play up your best physical features, play up the idea of meeting someone. The more genuinely positive you can be, the more people will enjoy being around you, and that's key to attracting men like bees to honey.

2. Get out there! Mr. Right is not going to knock on your door and sweep you off your feet unless he delivers for UPS. You're going to have to put on shoes and leave the house. (Sorry ;-).) Sure, you might be trying to meet a guy online (and yes, that does work for people), but that's no match for meeting people in the real world. So, put on shoes, and maybe some makeup, put your best foot forward, and go out and meet people.

3. Be friendly. Chat up the checker at the grocery store. Practice flirting with *everyone* you meet. Have a heck of a lot of fun everywhere you go and you'll find people (and men) drawn to you.

4. Be a good tipper. Going out with the girls? Leave a big tip. Picking up coffee? Tip! Getting into a spirit of being generous with your money does two things--one, it's easier to be relaxed when you've just been free with money; and two, you're looking for a guy who's generous with *his* money, right? Guess what--you've got to *be* it to meet him.

5. Loosen up a little. I'm not talking with alcohol, but rather with your body language! Relax, shrug your shoulders, don't stand so stiffly or with such "good" posture. You'll be a heck of a lot more approachable with friendly, loose, relaxed body language.

6. Ask a guy friend you trust for feedback. Tell him to be nice ;-), but you'll be impressed by how insightful most men are. He'll likely be able to point out just one or two things that you're doing that make men uncomfortable and viola you'll be able to change it (it's usually something easy like, "You always stand with your hands on your hips and it looks like you're looking for a fight,").

7. Keep an open mind. Now, I'm not saying you have to go out with anyone who gives you the creeps (please, trust your intuition there). But, if Mr. Too-Short asks you on a date and you're looking for someone taller, say yes anyway. Sure, there may not be sparks, but you never know who Mr. Too-Short knows. Or, as my grandmother always used to say, "You never know who's going to introduce you to your husband." So, hang out with people you might not otherwise, go out with guys who don't meet all your criteria, and keep an open mind about everyone you meet. Anyone of the people you encounter throughout the day might just be the person who introduces you to Mr. Right.

8. Enjoy single life!!! There's so much that's great about being single these days--you can travel where and when you like, hog all the covers, and eat cookies in bed. Embrace the stuff that makes single awesome, really enjoy where you are in your life right now. After all, it won't be long before these single days are but a fond memory--make the most of them while you still can!!

Resources

• The Women Men Adore and Never Want to Leave
• You can seduce men--free tips from the seduction genie