Things You'll Need:
- The will to succeed
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Step 1
When being pulled into an embrace, sneeze (and I mean REALLY let one rip - may your acting career take flight!) into your hands, and then excuse yourself to wash your hands. This won't work every time obviously (someone's bound to catch on), but it's just one of many maneuvers to pull.
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Step 2
Instead of flat-out refusal, offer a warm handshake along with a winning smile. A firm grip, lets a person know you're putting effort into your greeting, but still allows you to keep your distance.
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Step 3
If you're dealing with a stubborn hugger, try weaning them over time from a strong full-frontal hug to a softer side-hug. The dreaded side-hug isn't really something anyone desires, so from there you can quickly move on to a simple pat on the back with a side of a warm smile.
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Step 4
You can always pull the "My (insert relative here)'s sick, and I wouldn't want to pass it on to anyone" move. It works especially well for those who are around children often (ex. teachers, nannies, parents, etc., etc.).
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Step 5
When in doubt: RUN. Find something (anything) to make an excuse to be called away. It's not cowardly to cut and run - it's human nature to wish to avoid being suffocated. Many excuses include, but are not limited to: "I'm sorry, I've a splitting headache and need to find a drink," "Nature calls," "I'll be right back, I think my wife is trying to catch my attention," or even "Is that ____ I see by the shrimp?" When used appropriately, one will never have to suffer the social hug.
Comments
agape7755 said
on 7/8/2009 Ha! Great tips...nicely written too..*****
djackman said
on 5/18/2009 nice info on avoiding hugs, funny also 5*
jkopinion said
on 4/28/2009 Too funny...but true! Good tips and ideas, hope they work! 5*