How to Spot a Player

Since the beginning of time there have been nice guys and gigolos. Some guys you meet are loyal, looking for a relationship, and ready to fall in love. Other guys just want a good time. Here are tips to spot the gigolos so that you can avoid them.

Instructions

1. 

   Ask the person about the romantic places in town. If he knows every one be very careful. He likely is either really really preparing to woo you or more likely has been to them with others. Guys who are loyal to women are typically fairly loyal to places too and go to the same places when they date so the woman knows what they are about. The player goes to many places to minimize the chance of getting caught by one girlfriend when he is out with another.

2. 

   Now pay attention to how he talks to women. Does he call every woman he meets charming, beautiful, etc.? If he is complimenting everyone you need to be cautious. That may mean that he is constantly on the look out and when you and him hit a tough spot he will go to one of them for comfort. A good guy will typically be so focused on you that he will not notice the other girls.

3. 

   Pay attention to how he reacts when his telephone rings. Does he get a large number of calls that he does not answer? If so you may want to be careful because that may suggest that he is courting other girls and he doesn't want you to know. It could even mean he is married and you are his dirty secret from his wife. Although if he is a physician or other professional that is on call it may just mean that he is avoiding work. Although that is something to consider- if you want a man who avoids work at times.

4. 

   Pay attention to how long he spends in the bathroom. If he goes frequently and for long times it could mean that he is returning a call and he does not want to do that in front of you. Typically if a guy is returning a call, unless it is another woman, he would have no reason to avoid returning the call.

5. 

   Try to unexpectantly pop into his place. Does he like or hate that? If he hates it then you may have a problem. It may mean that he has other girls over at times, aka is playing the field.

6. 

   How does he react when a pretty girl walks by? Does his eyes pop out of his head? If so you know that he is not ready to settle down yet because he still wants to look around and see what is out there to sample.

7. Last but not least pay attention to what he says and see if it always jives with his actions or is there a chance he at times may be thinking of someone else.

Tips & Warnings

• Beware if he says things that are perfect or sound too good- they may be

• Beware if he never takes you out in public

• Beware if he does not talk about the future unless you are intimate

• Remember that every man is different and these are simply general tips