How to Attract Nerdy Girls
Most teenagers have one central thing on their minds; they want to attract the opposite sex. Many young men focus their attention on attracting the head cheerleader or the homecoming queen. While this is a difficult feat for most, it does not necessarily get any easier if you prefer a different type of girl, such as a nerdy girl. The fact is, it can be a challenge to attract just about any type of girl if you do not use the proper methods. There are some things you can do to make yourself more attractive to nerdy girls.
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Take time to get to know the nerdy girl that you are interested in. Nerdy girls are generally grouped into the smart crowd of kids. While this is a good thing, the girl may be on guard to being befriended for her intelligence rather than her charm. Your interest may not seem genuine if she believes you are only talking to her in hopes of getting help with your homework. Spend time with her, talk to her, compliment her, but be disciplined to not ask any favors from her.
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Approach her alone. Nerdy girls are generally not the most popular individuals in school. Most nerds have more than likely encountered more than their share of teasing by more popular "cool" kids. A nerdy girl may have her guard up when your try to approach her. Approaching her with your friends will likely only cause her to raise her guard higher. Seek out times to talk to her when you are away from your friends to keep her suspicions down.
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Take part in common activities. Show the nerdy girl that you are really interested in her by supporting activities she cares about. If she is on the debate team, show up for the debate. If she is in a math or science club, go to the competition. If she is volunteering as a tutor, volunteer as one yourself.
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Befriend her friends. Most girls hold a lot of stock in what their friends think. You may have lowered her defenses, but if her nerdy friends disapprove, you may find yourself stopped dead in your tracks. Hang out with her friends and be supportive of their activities, even if they are not your forte. Before you know it, more than one of the nerdy girls may be looking your way.
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