Things You'll Need:
- pen and paper
- or a computer
- photos and other memories
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Step 1
Begin by looking through old photos. These should help remind you of things you may have forgotten over the years, like your father's ability to play the acoustic guitar or how your grandmother knitted everyone a winter scarf.
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Step 2
Some people begin a eulogy with a few words about life in general. You can quote a famous philosopher with a quote like, "Life is a journey, not a destination". And then go with that theme. Discuss your loved one's journey through life, parenthood, returning to school in adulthood, or whatever applies.
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Step 3
Talk about what set that person apart from most people; it doesn't have to be all positive things either. If your older brother was totally stubborn, you can tell a quick story about how he was a stubborn pain-in-the-butt and how he drove you crazy. Just make sure it's funny and not rude.
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Step 4
Ask others close to the deceased to share stories with you. This will help you get a complete picture of what they were like and talk about them from the viewpoint of others.














Comments
yourbodycraves said
on 4/21/2009 interesting article on writing an obituary.