How to Use phone sex to spice up your love life

On your husband/boyfriend's next business trip, explore your inner fantasies over the phone with him and i assure you he'll be rushing home to fulfill your desires.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Phones (Camera cell phones if possible)
• Time (approximately an hour maybe two depending on how hot the talk gets)
• Props (for you long button up shirt from his side of the closet, a spritz of his cologne on your neck and wrists, lacey bra and panties)
• sexual toys if desired
• ice (optional)
• web cam (optional)

1. Sometimes distance and a telephone can make it easier to talk about fantasies that you've thought about but not discussed with your man. Its more liberating to be able to express yourself and let them think about what you've revealed to them.

2. Some fantasies may catch the other person off guard so don't take their stunned silence as a bad omen. Let the other person absorb what you have just admitted to wanting to experiment with. Some partners may be unsure of the next step to take if for example their girlfriend/wife admits that they would be interested in being spanked with a riding crop or called derogatory names as their partner is making love to them.

3. Take the time to inform your significant other what you are or are not wearing while you are talking to them. Better yet if you have a camera phone or web cam take pictures and show them your outfit and slowly strip it off in an erotic photo show.

4. Enjoy your time on the phone with your partner by explaining in detail what you would be doing to and with your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife if you were there with them. Where would you be touching them? What would they be doing back to you in response?

Tips & Warnings

• Make sure your cell phones are fully charged (I won't even go into detail about how frustrating it is to have your phone die suddenly at crucial moments)
• Keep an open mind during your talk. You never know what doors might be opened during talk and only way to know if you will like something is to explore the subject.
• DO concentrate only on your phone conversation. Turn off any and all other distractions such as the TV or radio.
• Do use sexual toys and other props if you want to include them in your phone talk.
• Be Very Descriptive when you explain what you would like to be doing.
• DON'T AUTOMATICALLY SAY NO. That will only embarrass your partner and make them feel awkward for bringing the subject up.
• DON'T ANSWER OTHER PHONE CALLS. Let other calls go to your voice mail.

Resources

• She told me :-)

[coffeefirst]

on 4/29/2009 this would also be helpful in a long distance relationship.

[freespiritchick]

on 4/19/2009 Grins Innocently I do this all the time with my long distance Boyfriend MWAZ Love you Daniel :-)

[ddare8]

on 4/19/2009 agrees!