How to Get People to Give You Money As a Wedding Gift
Over the years, the age for first-time marriages has increased as many individuals begin housekeeping on their own before tying the knot. With this in mind, it is not uncommon for most couples marrying to already have the essentials necessary to start a life and home together. Today, gift cards and cash are becoming more popular among gifts given to brides and grooms. Even some banks, such as Sun Trust, have established a "registry" for couples that are in the process of buying a house. This registry accepts monetary gifts that will be used for a down payment on a first home. Once upon a time, asking for money as a gift used to be considered rude or appalling, but with proper planning and the right approach, today it can be a wise and respected request.
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Decide how money received as a gift will be used and spread the word. Options include helping pay for the honeymoon, a house, savings, or other purchases.
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Inform family, relatives, friends and co-workers that money and gift cards would be the most versatile and useful gift. Explain how some of the money will be used and encourage them to mention the idea to others.
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Add a short note to shower invitations indicating that, in lieu of dinnerware, towels or dishcloths, the smallest monetary gift would be greatly appreciated. You could also mention that there will be a money basket or tree at the shower.
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Set up a money tree at the bridal shower or reception. A tiered cardholder can be placed on the gift table. Insert a $5, $10 or $20 bill to illustrate its purpose.
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Place a guest book by the money tree so people can be recognized later with a thank you card.
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Tips & Warnings
Being able to show friends and family plans as to how monies received will be used, will help the overall endeavor of getting cash as a wedding present. Additionally, maintain proper etiquette by sending thank you cards.
In the event either the bride or groom have issues with certain addictions, a money registry or monetary gifts are not advised.
