How to Flirt With a Boy Online
Social-networking sites and online bulletin boards have made communication with people around the world convenient and entertaining. With the click of a mouse, you can meet people of all nationalities, cultures, ethnicities and financial, educational and social backgrounds. Connecting with a boy online romantically is much harder than it would be if you met in person. In fact, flirting takes on a whole different meaning when it is done electronically. But there's a potential reward: From creating a profile on a social-networking website to expressing interest in a guy online, you will increase your chances of finding friendship and love via the World Wide Web.
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Set up a profile on a social-networking site and customize it to fit your personality. Add pictures and information about your interests, but do not reveal private information like your name, address or phone number. Join groups that revolve around your interests. Chat and post bulletin-board messages frequently.
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Once you have made contact with a boy you are interested in romantically, continue to correspond with him. Send messages to him via email and post bulletins that specifically address him. Add emoticons in the body of your text that express interest. A cleverly placed wink or heart is often more effective than words.
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Invite him to chat with you in private. Compliment his taste in music, his profile layout or his picture. Ask intimate questions about his goals, dreams and plans for the future. Set up a specific time to instant-message or chat with him again.
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Let the boy know that you are single and looking to meet someone to share your time with. Send him an e-card on special occasions and address the important issues in his life by offering to chat with him online. Tell him how important your friendship is and how much it means to you to have him in your life.
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Download free software like Skype (see Resources) so you can speak to each other over the computer once the time is right. Give yourself enough time to let things progress naturally. If the relationship goes according to plan, you may be able to arrange a face-to-face meeting in the future.
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Tips & Warnings
Be honest with the boy up front. Although it is not recommended to reveal every detail of your personal life with the people you meet online, it is better to be authentic than pretend to be someone else.
Do not include personal details like your name, address, phone number, school or workplace in your profile. Do not offer to meet someone until you have communicated with him for a long time. When the time is right, you can travel to a public place with a trusted friend or adult to check the boy out.
