How to Talk to a Girl by Texting
You miss your girl when she's not with you, but that doesn't mean you cannot communicate. Text messaging is a fast, fun and easy way to flirt, make date plans or just say, "I love you." You should, however, keep some simple tips in mind so the texting remains flirty and fun, not some horrible annoyance.
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Instructions
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Start sweet. Kick off the message with a sweet salutation, such as "Hey, baby," "Hiya Hotcakes," or whatever nickname you use for her.
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Keep it short. Think of what you want to say before you begin typing. Then use as few words as possible to relay your message. Yes, you can use those text message abbreviations, as long as you know she is familiar with them. Say you are texting to just say you are thinking of her. Don't write, "I am sending this text message because I am thinking of you and want you to know I am thinking of you." Instead, simply type: "Hey Lovely, Thinking of U!"
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Get to the point. Text messages should serve a purpose, hopefully, so bring up that purpose as soon as possible. Let's say you want to take the girl to dinner this evening. Avoid messages like, "There's this really cool restaurant on Broadway I want to try since Janice, that's my cousin, said it has the best Thai food and even those noodles you like. Should we go there and eat Thai food? Can you make it around 6 p.m.? If not, we can go another day." Please. Messages like that are too big for the screen. Set up a meal date with something like: "Hi Dolly, dinner 2nite at 6?"
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Use it for casual, informative or playful conversation. Don't discuss deep issues, start major fights or try to iron out the history of the world through text messages. If you have lengthier or more profound things to communicate, try to do so in person or at least on the phone.
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Tips & Warnings
Don't text while driving or when you're supposed to be paying attention to something else.
Don't expect an immediate reply. Some people really do have other things to do besides send text messages.
Don't text her every three seconds or when you know she's out with friends. You'll just look like a stalker.
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lilmee
Oct 05, 2010
....this is the way to talk to a girl... if you don't want her to like or love you.... it makes it seem like you don't care... and it looks like your trying too hard, I agree with not typing those long and weird sentences... but don't make it too short or she will think you don't care!!
