How to Explain to a Child Their Sibling Has Autism
Autism doesn't just affect the child who gets the diagnosis. It affects the whole family, including the siblings of the child. Parents often struggle with how to tell their other children about the autism diagnosis, and how much to tell them. Of course, the explanation depends on how old the child is and how mature they are. The basics on the talk remain the same for most children who have an autistic sibling. This article focuses on how to explain to a child that their sibling has autism.
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Make it relevant. If the problem doesn't directly affect them, they don't need to know. They only care about what it means to them and their interactions with their sibling. Focus on explaining what it means to them.
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Simplify. Don't use medical or technical terminology. Instead of sensory processing disorder, explain that the child is sensitive to certain lighting, textures, sounds or foods. Make it easy to understand.
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Be honest. Don't pretend like there isn't a problem. Children are very perceptive, and they know when something is going on. A sibling is often the autistic child's best advocate and therapist. Siblings love to help, and often do so by their own accord. Involve them in helping the child, which starts by helping them understand their sibling.
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Keep it positive. While being honest is imperative, make sure that the other children know that autism is not the end of the world. Point out how much the family can help the child with autism progress. The autistic child is still a child, just a child who needs a little help.
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Answer questions. Ask the child if they have any questions about autism and their brother or sister. Answer truthfully, and admit when something is just unknown.
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Tips & Warnings
Sometimes parents need a little time before sharing the diagnosis with siblings. This is fine, and even advisable. It's best to wait until the talk is going to be positive and helpful than to rush into it and end up scaring the siblings.
