How to Give a Woman a Real Orgasm & Have a Mind Blowing Time in Bed

Aside from learning how to change tires or fix some minor leaks in the kitchen sink, here's one other skill that every man should know about: how to give a woman a real orgasm. As an adult male, you should not let your hormones rule your time in bed anymore and give a girl a hurried, though satisfying time in bed because you are too eager to reach climax.

If you want to learn how to lead a woman to having a real orgasm, you can try to hold off your own pleasure, be more attuned to her sexual needs, and give her a mind blowing time in bed. Read on to learn about the steps that you need to keep in mind if you want to give a woman a real orgasm.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

1. Learn Exactly What Orgasms Are Like For Women
   
   For men, orgasm is a foregone conclusion of sex – after which you cannot do anything else because you will more or less be drained. Fortunately for women, they are able to enjoy more sensations because they do have the capability of experiencing one orgasm after another.
   
   Now, if you want to be a good lover and you would like to lead a woman to having a real – and not a fake – orgasm, then you should learn exactly what orgasms are like for them. Here are the telltale signs. Aside from that ecstatic noise that she makes, feel her heartbeat if you can – it should be as fast as when you are running a race. Also, there should be a flush on her breasts, face and neck.
   
   Another sure sign that she is not faking an orgasm is when her palms and feet are sweaty. There would be that hitch in her breathing, and a contraction in her vagina that you will feel during intercourse. By recognizing the signs on her body when she's having a real orgasm, you would be able to tell when she is close to the brink or not.

2. Make Her Feel Like A Queen And Let Her Know That Your Entire Focus Is On Giving Her Pleasure
   
   Giving a woman a real orgasm will not just give a boost to your male ego – but it will also make her feel special, wanted and appreciated. There's also such a thing as turning her on emotionally – and by making her feel like a queen and letting her know that you only want to give her pleasure – that is exactly what you will be able to do. This will make her real orgasm even more intense.

3. For Double Stimulation
   
   When having sex with a woman, make sure that you will not take either the clitoris or the G-spot for granted. Remember that most women do not achieve orgasm through penetration alone. It will definitely help if you will rub her clitoris during intercourse to stopper things up and make orgasm a reality for her, instead of the entire sexual experience as being disappointing.

Tips & Warnings

• For women, reaching a real orgasm is as much a physical as a mental experience – so use this fact to your advantage.
• When going for the double stimulation, be extra sensitive to her physical and audible responses so that you will not ending up hurting when you should be pleasuring her instead.

Resources

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