Things You'll Need:
- social americans are healthy.
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Step 1
This article will explain how to improve your social life in America. This article is extremely advanced and it is designed to make you extremely well known, if you do not have the regular social skills then it's bet you don't start with something so advanced!
For starters, It's a good rule to treat your social life like a business. And in business every customer is worth thousands of dollars to the company, no matter what the product that they are selling is worth. Each person can tell a few friends or make more than one purchase, this is parallel to social game. Each person that you meet in a night is means much more than just a friendship or a one night stand. They have the abitlity to introduce you to many more people, show up at your parties and social proof you. -
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Social proof is extremely important, it is your reputation. For instance if you are a guy who always has females around you, other people will flock around you because guys want to be around females and girls assume that you are of value because there are females on your arm. So Social proof is being labeled as a cool guy. Make sure that you collect contacts from every person that you can. Knowing alot of people will get you known as a cool guy. A really cool technique you can use once you get a bunch of contacts is invite your them on a social networking sites, mainly twitter, to pump social value while you are not around. Everytime you are doing something cool, put a little update on what you are doing. The cool thing about twitter is it can be updated on from your phone, and they can check it from their phone.
Facebook is a just as powerful because your contacts will be reviewing all of the pictures of you at cool parties (or just doing cool stuff), social proofing you even more. This is one of the benifits from maintaining a contact list. I call this e-proofing. -
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Another great way to meet alot of people fast is to Throw Parties!You can throw parties from your house or do a club promotion, this will get you well known (celeb status) and give you lots of loot. I recommend club promoting over house parties, because you can make more money doing this, people won't tear up your stuff and alot more people can come meet you! It isn't unusual for a club promoter to make from 2 to 10 thousand dollars a night (a week). Though let's start with the house parties to get some experience. House parties are easy, but dangerous I strongly suggest just trying to do club promotions even though they are harder. The first thing you should do is start having small parties with just a bunch of close friends, like 15 people parties. Make these parties a regular weekly thing. New people will come every week, and you can build your list from the new traffic, be constantly collecting new names. Charge people to drink. Send out massive emails to people mentioning that you will be charging 3$ to drink all night. Make sure you invite more women than men, as in invite 5 women for every 1 man.
Put all your stuff in a locked room, including your tooth brush, paste and everything else. Take knives out of your kitchen.
To avoid cops make sure everyone stays in the house, nobody should be outside. Also Close all of your windows, and blinds. You shouldn't be having the back signal shining from your house unless you want the vigalantes to come!
After your party is over spray your grass, side of the house and do the same for the neighbor. You don't want a lingering piss smell in your house.
Some additional ways to make money off of your guest is to add an arcade machine, make sure you crank that thing up to the hardest it can. Make sure you have change! Get a small beer/soda dispenser. Have a shot bar and charged a dollar a shot.
Mark all the cups with your logo so nobody can sneak in their own. Have lots of change just in case people don't have the three dollars, or they say they only have a 100 dollar bill.
Again it is important to always be building up your contact list in your phone, especially adding every woman that you meet. A list of 1000 women is more valuable than a list of 3000 men. -
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To begin club promoting start off with a list of your local clubs, pubs, or bars in your neighborhood. You want to start small if you don't have any experience. But it's important to remember that the location you choose will be one that you and you're group will enjoy.
After you've gotten your lists together you need to contact the club or bar and work out the details of the negotiation. This will be explained further at the following web address below. -
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Mass text your list of people, telling them all the details of your party. Make sure you social proof your text by saying something like, "Party at the Ritz tonight everybody that knows me is invited, it will be the only fun thing to do in town!" Usually about 2-5% of the people you email will end up coming, so it is important to have massive lists of people.
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Be sure to get people who are not only in your town but in neighboring cities as well. Your contacts should be filed by city and sex, know who you are inviting so you don't over do one city or invite to many males.
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Step 7
80% of the people that you invite should be female. This will help your parties to have a great reputation.
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Step 8
STAFF:
Photographer-You only need one, this will make people feel like V.I.P. and will give you some pretty nifty pictures to add to your facebook, for a party recap and some more social proof.
D.J.- Hire a d.j. but make sure that you know of more a d.j. that can fill in, stuff happens and you want to be prepared. Have 3 updated cd's made by proffessional d.j's. This is just in case either dj doesn't show up at all or is ten to fifteen minutes late. Make sure the cds are an hour long.
Bouncer, have 3 bouncers to break up any fights and to throw people out, ask the club owner to provide you with the people that they normally use.
Make sure that you have the money in pocket before you hire these people. Do not just be expecting to pay them with what you charge at the door, because you want know how many people will come. -
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Make sure you make flyers and cards with your name on them, and pass them out to as many people as you can. It is a good idea to have a couple of friends help pass these flyers out. Generally you should get flyers from online printers, because places like kinkos cost more because they usually don't do this sort of thing. They consider it a special. I have a great cheap flyers site in my refferences. Make sure the flyers are high resolution, and follows the format of any criteria from the site.
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Step 10
Once the party is going, start treating everyone like a VIP, that means say hi to everyone, and since you get drinks free, pass a few to some unsuspecting guest on your tab. Introduce people and just help people mingle. Have a good time, but make sure everyone is having a good time also!
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Step 11
After the party it's important to recap it no matter how it went. Go through your photographers photos, and pick high quality ones to put on your facebook or myspace. If the party wasn't a success make sure you don't put photos up that have empty space in them. Instead make sure they are of individuals having fun and that some of them you appear in.
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Step 12
This strategy should add a boom to your social life uplifting you to a mini celebrity in your town! Social American.
~Brandon Swain
