How to Make a Woman Orgasm & Be The Ultimate Lover That You Can Be

There's too much buzz about women not being able to reach the big 'O', but there are those who talk about having earth-shattering orgasms. As such, the concept of female orgasm is a subject that will forever be a mystery for most men. But what if you want to be a master lover in bed? What exactly can you do in order to learn how to make a woman orgasm and be the ultimate lover that you can be?

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

1. Learn About What Happens To A Woman's Body During Orgasm
   
   The first step in learning how to make a woman reach the big 'O' is by knowing exactly what happens to her body once she reaches it. Just like men, sexual arousal will cause her heart to beat faster and her breathing to grow quicker.
   
   The physical manifestations of the height of her sexual arousal is the tightening and swelling on the most sensitive parts of her body, as well as a flush on her face, neck and chest. The orgasm itself will start with strong muscle contractions which will occur at an interval of less than a second each - lasting for about 15 seconds. At this point, the inner part of her vagina opens up and the uterus contracts.

2. Start Making A Woman Orgasm By Seducing Her Mind
   
   If you want her to have an earth-shattering orgasm, it is always good to have a head start by seducing her mind. Even before you actually tangle the sheets with her, make playful 'passes' at her body throughout the day.
   
   Seduce her mind by giving her compliments or whispering playful, naughty or downright racy suggestions to her ear during the day. Once the bedroom door closes at night, you might get lucky and have her ravage you instead of the other way around.

3. While Tangling The Sheets, Keep Away From Directly Stimulating Her Vagina To Heighten Her Awareness And Anticipation
   
   Since her vagina is the end-all and be-all of where the sexual sensations are coming from, it is best to ignore that area for a little while. Go around the area of her breasts and her vagina without actually going for the target - the anticipation should build so that she will have a truly toe curling orgasm.

4. Refine Your Skills And Manual Dexterity
   
   After playing around for a bit, you might want to test the notion that women are capable of reaching multiple orgasms. Use your hands and your mouth to bring her to her first orgasm, and this is where you can use your skills at oral sex.
   
   The manual dexterity part should come while you are playing with her clitoris or locating her G-spot. It is also a good idea to do two things at once so to bring her out of her mind when it comes to the double pleasures that she's feeling. Finally, cap things off with a full penetration so that you can bring her to a mind blowing orgasm that she's not bound to forget anytime soon.

Tips & Warnings

• By following the aforementioned steps in making a woman orgasm, you can fully satisfy a woman in bed and be the best lover that you can be.
• Don't be frustrated if you fail to stimulate or even find her G-spot the first time - it might take several tries before you can successfully bring her to a G-spot orgasm.

Resources

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