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How to Give Yourself an Orgasm: Make Yourself Feel Incredibly Good & Sexually Satisfied

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By `Jessica Perez
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Nothing beats the feeling of knowing that there is no 'sexual tension' in your body to get rid of because you are regularly releasing it through masturbation. There's even a maxim which says that an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.

This is due to the fact that for both men and women, learning how to give yourself an orgasm is something that feels naturally good. Basically, what happens during an orgasm is that there is an intense feeling of pleasure characterized by a contracting-release motion within your vagina.

The way up to building an orgasm is also something that feels incredibly great. So from a woman's perspective, what are the steps that you need to follow if you want to learn how to give yourself an orgasm? Here's a quick list of some of tips and steps that you can follow.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Lubrication
  1. Step 1

    Relax And Let Go Of The Guilt

    When you are tangling the sheets with someone, the feeling of guilt probably adds to the excitement of things but this is not so when you are doing some solo action. If you want to learn how to give yourself an orgasm and be successful in doing it, make sure that you are a hundred percent relaxed.

    More importantly, let go of any guilt that you may feel as you work yourself towards having an orgasm. This is a perfectly natural sexual act that feels incredibly good – so why shouldn't you do it?

  2. Step 2

    Lubricate, Lubricate, Lubricate

    If there's one rule that women who are learning how to give themselves an orgasm should learn, that is none other than applying liberal lubrication. Depending on how much lubricant you wish to apply, this will make the task of learning how to give yourself an orgasm more smooth-sailing.

  3. Step 3

    Experiment With The Touch, Stroke And Pace That You Want

    While you're at it, why not experiment with the type of touch, stroke and pace that you want? Familiarize yourself with your nether regions, and touch other areas of your body which you consider to be erogenous zones.

    By doing so, you will not only be initiating your own orgasm, but you can also use the knowledge to express to your lover what you want in bed when you tangle the sheets with him.

    With these tips, you can easily allow yourself to enjoy that indescribable feeling that you have when reaching your first, second, third or even fourth orgasm.

Tips & Warnings
  • The good thing about using lubricants is that there are brands and variants which have a tingling sensation when used – these should aid in helping you achieve an earth shattering orgasm even if you are going solo.
  • Using sex toys is yet another way to initiate having an orgasm when you are by yourself. When doing this, make sure to use plenty of lubricants and always clean and disinfect your sex toys after each use.

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