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Step 1
To begin taking the stress out of playdates, schedule them. Provide a specific starting and ending time. Consider issues like meal times and nap schedules when selecting the time. Using the children's ages as a guide, plan how long the playdate will last...the younger the children, the shorter the playdate.
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Step 2
When the friends arrive at your house, welcome them graciously and then lay down the law. Explain the rules for your home and expectations for behavior. Whether it's "no running in the house" or "keep small objects away from the baby", keep the rules to just the most important.
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Step 3
Start the playdate with a structured activity to break the ice. This would be a good time for an art project. Do a project that produces a gift to take home. Here are a few ideas:
- Sticker pictures
- Popsicle stick frames
- Watercolors
- T-shirts decorated with fabric markers
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Step 4
Let the children move next to free play. This may take place in a play room or with a few toys out in the yard. If the children are beyond the mouthing stage, try a few balloons. They are great for kicking, throwing, and catching. They also hold the interest of the children for a long time.
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Step 5
Start up a dance party! Play festive music and encourage the children to spin and sway. This is a great way to get extra wiggles out.
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Step 6
Provide a snack. You may want to have a snack prepared or let the children make their own snack. Try these ideas:
-celery with cream cheese
-carrots with dipping sauces
-mini pizzas
-string cheese
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Step 7
Have the children help with cleaning up toys and snacks before the playdate is over. Not only does this teach the kids responsibility, but it also takes work off your plate! Make a game out of clean-up time by picking up according to color or shape, having a clean-up race, or cleaning in time with music.
