How to Charm a Man You Married

It is easy to charm a man if you know what makes men melt. There are words you can say, gifts you can give, things you can do, and ways you can look at a man to charm him through and through. Read this article if you want to daily charm the man you married.

Instructions

1. ~ To charm a man speak words of admiration and respect ~

   Marriage author Emmerson Eggerich calls this 'speaking blue' even though you naturally speak 'pink.' Men enjoy being told they are loved, but melt when they are told they are respected, that they are your hero, or that you deeply appreciate the hard work they do.

2. ~ To charm a man offer acts of unrequested service. ~

   Please don't go back to the oppressive era of women serving men hand and foot. That's not the point. Instead, surprise your husband with a favorite dessert, by scheduling child care for a date, or some other act of service you know he will appreciate that you do not normally do.

3. ~ To charm a man look at him with love in your eyes ~

   You remember how you used to flirt with him with your eyes. You may not have known what that did to him, but its powerful, magical even. Give him an upward glance with a smile in the corner of your lips. Give the man you married a come on over look, and see what it does.

4. To charm a man give clues to your sexual interest.

   Anyone is a sucker for being made to feel attractive. Charm a man you married by playful touching around the house, suggestive statements at dinner, candles lit in the bedroom, or even an explicit request can go a long way toward charming your man. Often women want sex to be the result of relational warming. Men often offer more relational warming as a result of sex. Until one partner decides to serve the other it can be a vicious cycle.

5. To charm a man you married buy gifts he wants and knows you do not want.

   When you buy someone a gift that they know does nothing for you, it is a charming gesture. Charm a man by giving him tickets to the football game, the tool he has been drooling over, or something he wished for but never believed he could have.

   ** See more tips below on charming the man you married**

Tips & Warnings

• When in conflict situations continue to express your own needs and opinions, but watch your tone and body language.

• Try to express yourself in explicit requests as much as possible.

• Offer to join your man in recreational pursuits.

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