How to Make Women Want You (The Basics)

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

Confidence
Motivation
Dedication
Determination

Step 1

Accept The Facts- Women are arguably the most complex and complicated creatures on the planet. Understanding women has become an obsession and field of study for men all over the world. There are training camps and seminars sought out to teaching techniques to men on how to attract women. This information is so valuable to men that these seminars can cost a staggering $5,000.00 and up! There are a wide variety of books and dvds you can purchase online. Also you can join forums and websites dedicated entirely to this topic(Ex: www.theplayersociety.com ). The point is, this topic is questioned by millions of men who will do just about anything to learn how to bring women into their lives, thus, you are not alone.
Step 2

Get Your Look- Women are judgemental figures who think they can tell you all there is to know about you, just by looking at what your wearing. For a woman to even experience any type of attraction toward you, she must first feel interest. To gain this spark of interest, you will need to spend sometime in the looks department. It's time for some self-improvement. Go on a shopping spree! Change up your style a bit to match the interest of the type of women you are looking to date. Get a haircut, buy some nice cologne, and even some jewelry (Women love men who accessorize). Women like men who pay attention to what they look like. Plus there's nothing like a new look to help boost up your confidence!
Step 3

Get The Right Attitude- Women want alpha-males. They don't want the whimp who can't stand up for himself. They also don't want the needy guy who can't live without them. They really don't want the "too nice," low-confidence boy who wont stop complimenting them and complaining about himself. They want real men who are unafraid of the world and have no problem getting what they want. Women feed off CONFIDENCE. For any woman to feel comfortable around you, you must first feel comfortable with yourself. It's time to become the man you always knew was inside of you. It's time to walk out of that apartment with a sense of pride, knowing you are special and you have a lot to offer a woman. "You want what you can't have." This is a fundamental rule of the universe. Don't be that man who any woman can have, be the man who can have any woman. Feel in your soul that you are the prize, not the contestant. Drill this into your soul and your attitude will be ready for the next step.
Step 4

Location, Location, Location- Can't make a woman want you if they never see you! Become a regular at any hang-out spots common to women in your area. Approaching gets much easier when you are a familiar face. Great venues to try out may include dance classes, yoga classes, a gym, or any activity that can make speaking to a women less awkward. Visit many different locations in your area to see where the best places are to meet women. The more contact you get with women, whether you speak to them or not, the more comfortable you will become around them. (Save the club or bar for when you're more advanced and ready)
Step 5

Time To Make Friends!

Find Your Support Group- Surely you must have friends. Hopefully you have friends who seem to attract women naturally or at least some friends who are outgoing. Women are great friends to use for you quest as well! These friends will prove useful in many different situations where women travel in groups. Whether your at the mall, a coffee shop, or even a club. Having a companion in your conquest makes things easier, funner, and less awkward. Maybe you've heard of the term "wing-man." Make friends at the places you visit. Women like men who seem important. When a woman notices a guy greeting everyone in the establishment, she will wonder "who is this guy?" And wonder is the cousin of interest.*
Step 6

Approach- Yes, the scary part is here. What men don't know is that most women are rarely approached! And when they are approached most men have no idea what they're doing anyway! It's not that woman don't want to be approached, they just don't want to get annoyed. No woman wakes up in the morning and thinks "geez I DON'T want to get swept off my feet today." Women are waiting for you! If you honestly have the "attitude step" down, this should be no problem for you. If a woman is responding to you in an interested manner, she's on the hook and it's now your job to not mess it up. If you can demonstrate all these steps successfully, there is no doubt women will want to know more about you. This is only the beginning of a long and complicated process but you can now feel confident in knowing you're on your way to dating success.