Things You'll Need:
- Decision on if girlfriend is cheating
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Step 1
Follow up with her stories. If you hear a whopper of a story, that sounds too good to be true, get on the phone and ask. For example, she said she was at a coffee shop, grab a photo and go down and see if the barista on duty saw her. Don't be shy, you need to see if the stories are real or lost leads for an escapade.
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Step 2
Don't make too many assumptions. In fact start writing down dialog of where she was and how it was to see if it is plausible. You will start noticing too many coincidences immediately when you take out the emotions.
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Step 3
Check the phones and texts. We have our technological leashes to help us, but those who cheat use them to be in touch too. A brief look over the phone will give you an idea of who she is hanging with and talking to! Letting her know you are checking the phone could be a relationship buster, so do it discreetly














Comments
JackLTrades said
on 3/17/2009 Good advice. My ex wanted to get caught. Reciepts in the car.