Things You'll Need:
- You're partner
- Yourself
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Step 1
The biggest rule is NEVER CHEAT. If you love your partner you will already know that you could never cheat on them, but even if you are not that far in your relationship that you love them yet still NEVER cheat. No matter what it will come out and feeling will be hurt. It is never worth it and can only bring about pain.
Something to do however is to always be kind to your lover. Treat them how you would want to be treated. Always take them and their views into consideration. Be open and honest with them and don't be afraid to let them into your life. -
Step 2
DO NOT say means things about your partner or their family. There is usually a fairly obvious line between harmless teasing and saying something hurtfull. Most everyone, especially women don't mind being teased lightly every now and again, but never insult their looks, thoughts, intelligence, or their personality, etc. Even if they seem to laugh it off, this still is hurtful and will only create a rift between you later on.
Instead go out of your way to compliment your partner. This includes looks, intelligence, thoughtfullness, and everything else. And also mean it. Only say something if you truly mean it, never lie about a compliment. If you don't have something nice to say than just don't say it, but everyone always enjoys a compliment. It will make your partner feel good about themselves and draw you closer together. -
Step 3
The final DON'T of dating is to not demand too much of your partner. For men this is often sex. Restrain yourself, even you will be glad you did. Demanding sex from your woman all the time makes then feel like they are being used and only wanted for their bodes. And if that is true than you should not be in that relationship. For women, do not demand that your partner always buy you nice things or take you exciting places. You can remind him every now and again, but often times it is too hard and expensive to go on trips or shopping on every urge. A woman using a man for money is just as bad as a man using a woman for sex.
What you SHOULD DO is always make sacrifices, compromises, and commitments to each other. Do not sacrifice so much that you feel used or abused, but be fair, kind, and generous with each other. It will always pay off. Even the best relationships still take work, but love can make it very easy and lots of fun. ENJOY!!
