How to Stop Elder Abuse

Each year many elder adults are victims of physical, verbal, emotional. and other types of elder abuse. According to statistics most elder abuse occurs in the family home and not in a nursing home. Although there are many kinds of extreme elder abuse, most elder abuse is more subtle especially when the elder person depends on his or her family for dependent care. If you or anyone you know suffers from elder abuse, follow the the steps below to stop elder abuse.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Education and awareness are some of the best ways to stop elder abuse. The media have focused on elder abuse in nursing homes; however more research and education needs to be done about elder abuse in the home. Many elderly people fear coming forward and complaining. To become more educated about elder abuse, contact your city for information. Most city agencies have information and services for the elderly regarding elder abuse.

2. If you are taking care of an elder parent, spouse, or grandparent, make sure to get help especially if you are feeling overwhelmed. Have someone come in your house for a few hours a week to make sure you get time off from taking care of an elder person. There are also many day-care facilities for seniors in most cities. It's important for your sanity to have your own time where you don't have to worry about the responsibilities of taking care of someone. Make sure to widen your social support system, and get as much help as possible.

3. To stop elder abuse get counseling for the family. Family counseling will help people deal with the stress of taking care of an elderly person. If a family member has a drug or alcohol problem, elder abuse is more likely to occur in the home. Make sure to find appropriate help from counselors and 12-step programs.

4. To stop elder abuse, sometimes it's in the best interest of everyone to put the an elderly person in a nursing home. While this can be a difficult decision, it may be best if the elderly person moves into a different setting. Many people feel obligated to take on the responsibility of an older relative even if it means giving up things they enjoy like their job, education, and friendships. If an elder requires too much time and work, it is probably in the interest of everyone that he or she moves into an environment that can meet special needs.

Tips & Warnings

• If you suspect an elder is being abused, don't be afraid to contact adult protective services. Contact your state or city's agency. Make sure to keep detailed notes with dates about the suspected abuse.

Resources

• Center on Elder Abuse

[sonni57]

on 3/17/2009 The elderly are sadly forgotten these days the nursing homes are a nightmare. And family's don't care and I suppose it will only get worse.