How to Flirt on the Computer

Learning how to flirt on the computer is one of the most important things that you can do in order to land a date through the Internet. Online dating sites can hook you up with someone and can usually offer you the information you need to get into people's heads and seduce them, but until you figure out the right keystrokes, all you'll get is words and no action. Of course, if all you're looking for is a little anonymous flirtation, figuring out how to be really good can only enhance the experience.

Things You'll Need

• Pen and piece of paper

Instructions

1. Find out all you can during your "small talk" phase. When learning how to flirt on the computer, keep a pen and piece of paper nearby and write down the little things that they tell you in the chat room. If you meet the person through an online dating site, make sure to read their profile thoroughly and record anything that they list as something they like or are looking for. This includes favorite movies and books as this information will be used to start moving onto more hot and heavy things.

2. Search out their desires. Whether it be through Internet research or footwork, make sure to check out their favorites. Read their favorite book, watch their favorite movie and find photographs of their dream vacation spots. Write down romantic or sexy quotes, as well as any sensual ideas that pop into your head about the exotic places that you could go together.

3. Be honest with them if you have never experienced the same things that they have. It's flirtation in itself when you tell someone that you are interested and that you just went out and rented their favorite movie or read the book that gets to them every time they reread it. When in the chat room or logged into the online dating site, quote a few of the lines that you felt were most poignant and see how they respond. Starting off with sexy innuendos from experiences that you know have turned them on in the past will make it easier to work your way onto other things when flirting on the computer.

4. Tell them a few of your fantasy stories that involve them. These do not need to be graphic, especially at first. Ask them what their perfect date would be and try to incorporate your desires with theirs. Twisting both your fantasies into one story will make it easier to create the perfect setting to delve deeper into "virtually" seducing them.

5. Go from there. As you get more experienced with learning how to flirt on the computer, you will figure out how to gauge the other person's reactions on how far you can go. Some people get off on graphic details, whereas others romanticize vaguer scenarios and like to fill the rest of the picture in with their own minds.

Resources

• More Ideas on Long-Distance Flirtation