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Step 1
You can know what you are missing even if you have never had it.
-Often times I hear clients tell me "he's not the one" even though they have never found "the one."
-I guess the question is: How can you know what feels right for you if you have never had it? -
Step 2
You feel like you are "home" - that this is where you belong?
-Even though we may have never had the feeling of finding the perfect one for us - when you find a "fit", you know it.
-It is more then chemistry, more than like interests, it is something that says, "This feels like home." -
Step 3
You can work on issues but cannot work on that "connection". Either you have it or you don't.
-There is an "effortless" feeling that accompanies being with that person.
-We are hard-wired for chemistry. If you do not "feel" that connection, you cannot think your way through it.
-It does not matter how much someone has. When the lights go down, everyone gets on the same playing field. -
Step 4
Having that connection balances everyday stresses and allows you to feel safe.
-There's something about knowing this is where you belong.
-Regardless of the ups and downs of everyday life, when you know this is where you belong, you surrender to life and all that it brings.
-Feeling safe is not wanting to be anywhere other than where you are. -
Step 5
Heart connections are playful, fun and loving.
-There is an innate joy that comes from true heart connection.
-You easily become child-like, un-self-conscious; content to be whom you are, without worry.
-You feel totally accepted for who you are and you don't try to be anything else.
© 2009 by Chandra Alexander and Coaching for Authenticity, Inc. All Rights Reserved
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