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Step 1
First, start out slow. Go on short casuals date, meet someone for coffee or have lunch. There is no need to start out with a heavy duty Saturday night date. This could put entirely too much pressure on you.It will take some time before you can fine tune those dating skills again.
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Step 2
Second, be good to yourself, don't rush into dating, give yourself some time to heal. But then it is time to start dating. When you go out on these early dates take pride in how you look, how you look will reflect in how you feel about yourself. You want to give off positive vibes. Not that you are someone who has just gone through a divorce.
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Step 3
Third, date a lot, go on a lot of first dates, meet as many people as you can. The more dates you go on the more comfortable you will feel about dating. Also you do not want to get too serious with anyone too early. Remember practice makes perfect.
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Step 4
Fourth, date night shouldn't be just Friday or Saturday night. Think of every night of the week as a potential date night. If work is a concern, remember these early dates do not have to be long. I suggest evening dates, even if just for coffee, they give the feeling of romantic ambiance.
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Step 5
Lastly, just date, don't just sit around thinking how you should get back out there and date. Do something, get off your butt and put your self out there. No one is going to come to your front door looking for you.
