Things You'll Need:
- Appropriate Erotica
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Step 1
Look at erotica as a tool to get you in the mood. Then - when you are nice and excited - go make love to your spouse.
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Step 2
Read erotica with your spouse. It might be a bit embarassing for the two of you - but that's the fun! It will be like you're young again.
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Step 3
Write your own erotica. Imagine it's you and your spouse in the story. Go ahead - make it fun and crazy. Maybe write about that super dream vacation you both would like to take some day.
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Step 4
Read erotica featuring married couples. Read a book like Erotic Stories For Married Couples. These stories feature married couples in all sorts of sexy exciting fun. You may get some ideas to actually try or maybe for making up your own stories!
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Step 5
Find a quiet time and place to read. There's nothing more frustrating then getting all hot and bothered and then being interrupted.
