Things You'll Need:
- Just you and your spouse
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Step 1
Phone Calls & Text Messages; Sometimes when your spouse/partner is cheating on you they may make their phone calls more discreet. If they would normally take their calls when you are in the room, then out of no where your spouse is hiding their calls or walking into a different room so that you are out of the hearing range that should throw up a warning sign. Also if your partner used to leave their cell phone lying aroung and now they are constintly hiding their phone from you then something must be up. If your spouse used to let their text message inbox get full no all of a sudden they are deleting their messages or there is gaps in the conversation then most likely there is something they don't want you to see. Also sometimes when a partner is cheating and the attention of their affair calls and if you are in the room they may start to say things like "Sorry you have the wrong number" more then before to let their person on the side know that their wife\husband is in the room and that they cannot talk at the moment.
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Step 2
Appearance; If your spouse starts changing up their style out of no where and wearing different cologne or perfume. There may be someone that they are trying to impress. For example; Guys, if your wife/girlfriend starts trying new hairstyles randomly or start wearing more make up when they used to just go all natural and they are wearing more appealing clothing when they used to dress relaxed then start asking some questions. And Ladies; if your guy starts paying more attention to their appearance and if they start wearing a different brand of cologne maybe something is going on.
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Step 3
Lying becomes a big part of an affair after all your spouse has to make excuses as to where they have been. Sometimes when people lie the tend to not be able to look you in the face. Of they become defensive if you ask where they have been. When some people lie they make look you straight in the face but they are unable to keep their eyes locked with yours. They may tend to stare at the groud or the ceiling. Its not always easy to tell when someone is lying because some people are just natural born liars.
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Step 4
If you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you pay attention to how they looked and what they smelled like before they left the house. If they come home with either different clothing of if they smell like someone from the opposite sex start wondering. Also pay attention to how their hair looks if every strand was perfectly in place when they left and then they come home and their hair looks like they just rolled out of bed then take that as a warning.
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Step 5
E-mail; if your spouse used to give you the passwords to their e-mails and such and now all of a sudden they are keeping their password secretive then there is obviously something they don't want you to read.









