How to Discuss Birth Control With Your Partner

When you are in a new relationship, it's very important to discuss birth control with your partner. Don't assume anything about the safety and effectiveness of your partner's birth control methods until you have discussed birth control with your partner.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

1. Bring up the topic of birth control early in the relationship.
   
   Don't wait until it's too late. Bring up birth control early, and talk about birth control in a confident, unashamed manner. You'll put your partner at ease and allow him or her to have a more natural dialogue about birth control and safer sex.

2. Discuss birth control in a private setting, when the moment is right.
   
   Don't be shy about bringing the topic up. This is a conversation you need to have with your partner. Find a private setting, and ask your partner flat out about birth control.

3. Consider seeing a family doctor with your partner.
   
   If you discuss birth control methods with a medical practitioner together, you'll be more likely make a safe, informed decision about what birth control method to use.

4. Don't be embarrassed.
   
   While you may be embarrassed to bring up birth control, you shouldn't be. Everyone has a right to know about birth control options and choices.

5. Offer to play an active role in birth control.
   
   Don't rely on your partner to make all the effort in preventing pregnancy. You should also take a proactive stance in order to prevent your partner from getting pregnant.

6. Discuss birth control and safer sex in every relationship you are in.
   
   Don't make assumptions about people based on their lifestyle or career. Take the same precautions in every single relationship.