How to Be More Romantic With Your Wife or Girlfriend

If you want to be more romantic with your partner, all you have to do is think of her feelings and respect her desires. Romance is simply placing more thought into little things that you know will make your wife or girlfriend happy. Follow these romantic tips and you will leave your partner thinking you are the most amazing man she has ever met.

Instructions

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   Give her flowers for no reason. Surprise her with her favorite flowers and you will completely impress her with your thoughtfulness. It seems a simple and silly task, but many women aren't used to getting flowers because either men don't really think of it, or they think it's silly and cliche. Neither is true. Picking even a single rose and surprising your wife or girlfriend is an extremely romantic gesture. Even better, pick her a bouquet of wildflowers and hand deliver them.

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   Write her a love poem. Men often have a tough time expressing their feelings to their wives or girlfriends because many are taught to be strong and manly. Women love to be told how much you feel for them. If this is difficult to say to her face to face, write your thoughts on paper. It doesn't have to be perfect. Even writing "I love you" on a piece of plain paper and setting it on the table for her to see in the morning before work is enough to make her heart skip a beat. Better yet, after taking a hot shower, write the words "I love you" on the mirror in the warm mist and she'll see them after she has taken a shower and the mirror heats up again. She'll think your the most romantic man ever.

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   Give her a massage. The touch of a man who loves her will make her feel warm and giddy. A massage can be very romantic and the fact that you thought enough of your wife or girlfriend to give her your time will completely impress her. Light a couple of candles, turn off the lights, and warm up some baby oil and she'll think she's died and gone to heaven. Romance comes in the form of thoughtfulness and your partner will know how much she means to you when she sees how much time you put into making her relaxed and happy.

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   Dance with her. Put on some slow music you both enjoy and dance at home. Grab her lustfully and sweep her off her feet by holding her close and dancing through the house. She'll love the feeling of having you near and shutting out the rest of the world. Music can sooth any stressful day and create a truly romantic vibe. Surprise her by making her a romantic CD that you can dance to. She find you completely romantic for thinking of her.

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   Watch the stars together at night. Lay a blanket on the ground on a warm night and lay together staring up at the sky. Talk about anything, or nothing...and just cuddle. Make sure it's a night when the sky is lit up with stars. Tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. There is nothing more romantic than star gazing and your wife or girlfriend will appreciate the time alone with you.

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   Wake her up early to watch the sunrise. Brew a pot of coffee and get your partner up right before the rise of the sun. Wrap a blanket around both of you and take your coffee cups to the porch. Sit and watch the sunrise together. This is a very romantic way to wake up and spend the day together. She'll be in a great loving mood all day and you will too. This may not work if neither of you are morning people, so beware that she might be grumpy and proceed with caution on this one.

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   If all of this seems a bit much for you and your romance level is a bit shaky, just do little things for your wife or girlfriend. You don't have to go overboard to be a romantic. Greet her at the door with hugs and kisses. Make dinner for her and let her relax on the couch. Do the dishes. Do the laundry. Try taking on more tasks at home and she'll think your amazing. Romance can come from just being sweet to your partner and helping her out so that her life is a little easier.

Tips & Warnings

• Reassure your wife or girlfriend how much you appreciate her...this is true romance.

• Offer to do nice things for her on a daily basis.

• Treat your wife or girlfriend with respect.

• The key to romance is that little things are bigger than extravagant gifts.

• Don't go overboard with gifts and flowers all the time...the novelty will wear off.

• Don't assume she wants things that you want...think like a girl, not a man.

Resources

• Improve Your Romance
• 101 Romantic Ideas
• Tips for Being More Romantic
• Romantic Rituals