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Step 1
1) The Ultimate Goal: You want to be the only girl who can distract your man from the Saturday afternoon football game and to be the girl who can still make his hands sweaty from that excited nervous feeling he gets from being around you. You want to be the one who he holds on to from the first moment he meets you and to this day still cannot stand the thought of letting you go.
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Step 2
2) In The Beginning: You want to be the sexy, confident girl who stands apart from the rest. You do this by being yourself, a very confident version of yourself. There are no set rules for the way one should behave when trying to attract a mate. If you act like the kind of girl depicted in the advice columns you slave over then you are only going to end up attracting someone who likes that kind of girl. You are not going to be attracting the kind of man you are interested in, just the kind you will end up getting bored with in a few short weeks. All too short to start the endless process of dating over again. It is an exhausting game of people trying to portray themselves in the most positive light possible, even if it means portraying someone that is not them. Quirks in a person and the fact that they can embrace them are what makes them unique and stand apart from the rest.
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Step 3
3) Once You've Caught Your Man: So you have the man that you have been waiting for. And it took years or months of searching for him in the vicious dating cycle, so you want to hold on to him. You should know you got him being yourself so that is most likely how you will keep him. Being that same vibrant and confident woman you were when first met him. Do not change yourself because you think that it will boost your attractiveness towards him. Loving yourself is the most important thing. All the little things you love about yourself are the things that your man will come to love about you, and were probably the things that attracted him to you in the first place. They are the things that he will not be able to stop loving.
