Things You'll Need:
- You will need common-sense, a sense of humor and honesty to succeed with any women.
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Step 1
The first step to understanding a women is to listen. Listening while watching television does not work. In order to listen ... and this goes for women also, you need to pay attention. If you are reading, watching television or any other activity, except looking at the other person you are not listening. When she is talking to you make eye contact, you will be surprise how well you remember what she tells you when you pay attention.
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Step 2
Most women who are extremely jealous are jealous for a reason. Think back about how you act in front of her with other women. Do you flirt with the waitress, clerk etc... If so you have just given her reason to think you do with every women you see and worse when she is not around. Most women are not insecure unless given a reason to be insecure. Being nice to a person is one thing but flirting is another. If you need to flirt with a women while you are in the company with another women, than maybe you should be by yourself. I have been with both the flirter and the man that could care less about how "adorable" the waitress thinks he is. I much prefer the man that cares about me and my feelings when he is with me. And never call other women by cute nicknames. For example, I had a man frequent a bar after work with a few of his buddies. Much to my surprise was I when I walked in and found him addressing the bar tender as kiddo. No, not a very flirtatious name, but not a name you should address another person you are not dating. If you are dating someone than date them. If you want to flirt with all the girls, than go home alone and flirt all you want.
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Step 3
Date and talk to women that enjoy the same things you do. If not, than find an interest in what they do so you have some thing to talk about. Talk to women about everyday topics. Don't be afraid to talk to women and get their opinion, but be sure to listen to their answers. Loosen up and joke about the everyday stuff. Women love men that make them laugh.
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Step 4
Don't expect a woman to wait on you. You will get more respect if you help out. A person, will not mind taking care of you, but if you expect them to, they will resent it and do the opposite. Most women work full time now, and are just as tired when they come home as you are. Share the work they will treasure you if you are willing to help carry your weight.
Just as we have all heard the stories about how lucky we are to live now and not when our parents did because they "had to walk to school in 30 below weather for 10 miles up a hill" etc... the times when women stayed home during the day and cleaned the house, made dinner, did the laundry and kept the children in line are gone, with those long walks to school in below zero weather. Ask any women and she will tell you she would love to come home from work to a meal that is already cooked and a house that is clean. Most relationships do not have that luxury, so help out and she will adore you for that. -
Step 5
To summarize: women are sensitive creatures and need to feel loved, wanted and appreciated. Listen tentatively to them and you will know what they need. When you listen and treat them like one of your best friends you will easily understand them.
