How to Hear a Yes When You Ask a Girl on a Date

The idea of asking a girl out isn't a new one. Through the years guys have been using their tricks and tips to get the opposite sex to go on a date. The secret finesse of asking comes back to knowing what you want and getting the girl to agree. Here's how!!!

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. Be direct but light hearted when you ask the girl. You can compliment her on something she is wearing and ask her if she would like to have dinner. A direct approach is really appreciated by girls as they get to know exactly what you want and what you might want to do.

2. Pass her a note. This works well if you want to put something that is cute and full of curiosity, but allows the girl to see you want to go out. Offer dinner, a movie or a walk on the beach - whichever is most comfortable to you.

3. Have a friend help you out. It does sound stupid, but the buddy system has no shame. If you are in a setting where you can ask for help from your buddy, why not? A perfect place would be a bar or a party where a lot is happening and it seems natural.

4. Be funny. Don't be too funny and make a complete jerk of yourself, but funny enough to be noticed and really stand out from the crowd. This will lead to you asking her out or she will ask you if she is interested.

5. Study up on those pick up lines. There are thousands of pick up lines that you can use. Find your perfect line (or one that is close which you can tweak) online. Hundreds of free sites offer pick up lines to choose.

[williamfjordan]

on 2/21/2009 good advice...