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How to Spot the Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend

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By seedling
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With modern technology, it's really not that hard to catch a cheating boyfriend anymore. Read this article for some of the signs of a cheating boyfriend and keep reading for an easy way to catch a cheating boyfriend.

Just be sure that it's legal in your area to do so!

Also, keep in mind that some of these techniques could hurt your relationship, so think twice before you use them because if your boyfriend finds out he might not be too happy!

Difficulty: Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • An extra cell phone
  1. Step 1

    Start with the obvious and easy stuff, such as a smell of perfume on his clothes, lipstick on his neck, an earring on one of his car seats. Is he always taking a shower as soon as he gets home? These are obvious tip-offs.

  2. Step 2

    Look for behavioral signs of a cheating boyfriend, such as a loss of interest in the relationship, spending a great deal of time apart, dishonesty and loss of interest in sex or conversation.

  3. Step 3

    Now, check the more technical things. Can you get into his email account? Can you listen to his voicemail? If you can get into any of these you should be able to find out what's going on his life. What about his credit card and ATM statements? Be sure not to break any laws by hacking or opening his mail.

  4. Step 4

    If you are still up in the air about whether he is cheating, you can confront him. Does he stutter, hold your eye contact too long or not at all? Does he seem to contradict himself? These are all signs of a cheating boyfriend.

  5. Step 5

    Finally, if you want closure, use GPS tracking. Just get an extra cell phone and hook it up to Google Latitude. Now put the phone on mute and throw it in his car. You will be able to track your boyfriend now and will have proof or not as to whether or not he is cheating. As far as I know, it's not illegal to leave your cell phone in someone's car, but you should check local laws first. If you can do this legally, you won't need to spot the signs of your boyfriend cheating anymore because you will be able to verify or dispel any suspicions you have.

Tips & Warnings
  • If you have to go to these lengths to spot the signs or to catch a cheating boyfriend, there's already been a loss of trust in the relationship and you may want to consider moving on.
  • Don't break the law! Be sure to follow the law first and foremost.

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on 10/15/2009 Hmm. If you don't trust your boyfriend after he tells you he isn't cheating, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with him, no matter how much you love him.
If you trust your instincts, you'll know whether he's lying to you or not no matter what he says to you.

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on 8/15/2009 Liars, go to Heaven!..........so that you could change for the better.

hann said

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on 5/27/2009 i have tried it before but due to networks difficulty it's kind a odd.. he was in the west while track said his in the east how was that.. still not reliable for me..

texasparky said

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on 2/26/2009 Whoa! Cell phone and Google Latitude. I like it!...And the easiest way to not get caught is DON'T CHEAT!

melwetzel said

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on 2/19/2009 Wow, awesome tips!

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