How to Identify the Signs of a Cheating Husband

When a husband suddenly loses interest in his wife, he might be cheating.

Infidelity has serious consequences and can tear a home and a family apart. If you have doubts about the faithfulness of your husband, look for signs that he is cheating on you. However, ask yourself: Do you really want to know? If you do, carefully observe, investigate and gather evidence that identifies the signs of a cheating man. If he is not cheating, then any of these signs should confirm that you have a faithful man.

Things You'll Need

• Bank statements
• Credit card statement
• Phone records

Instructions

1. See if he leaves the house at odd hours. For example, your husband leaves the house after 10 p.m. and does not come back until after midnight. A cheating husband may give an excuse, such as "I left to pick up milk." Conclude that it's not logical to go out for milk when most grocery stores close at 9 p.m.

2. Check to see if large amounts of money have been withdrawn from you bank account. Ask for an explanation if you see money missing. Check the bank records, and keep records.

3. Check credit card statements to see if any charges have been made to area hotels, escort services or gentleman's clubs. If any unknown companies are found on the credit card statement, contact these companies to find out what services are offered and to confirm that your husband used their services.

4. Look for receipts in the pockets of his clothing before it is washed. A cheating husband may leave incriminating receipts in clothing that he wears. Check receipts for patterns and habits on his whereabouts on specific dates.

5. Take note if he refuses to answer cell phone calls and turns the cell phone off whenever he is home. Monitor the times when calls occur, and ask your husband why he is not answering the calls.

6. Check cell phone messages. Watch for an unfamiliar and regularly called number that appears on his cell phone. Most cheating men will clear cell phone messages as soon as they have received a call from a lover. Look at his phone bill, and see if your husband is routinely calling the same number.

7. Monitor his traveling. A cheating husband will have unscheduled business trips that take him out of town during weekends and holidays.

8. Smell his clothes for the scent of an unfamiliar women's perfume. In addition, some of clothes may have makeup on them.

9. Check the trash for items such as condoms and Viagra pills or their packaging.

10. Take note if he stops being romantic, having sex and loses interest in being affectionate.

Tips & Warnings

• Use your intuition. If you feel something is not right, trust your feelings.

• Check the computer for its usage and emails. As a rule, there should be no reason for your husband to have nude pictures of himself on the computer.

References

• Cheating Spouses Signs: Homepage
• Future Scopes: "Cheating partners - How to Find Out If Your Partner Is Cheating; Louella Vaz
• Truth About Deception: How to Catch a Cheating Spouse
• All Women Talk: "11 Obvious Signs of Cheating ... Is He a Cheater?;" Sheila
• Cheating Husband: Homepage
• Catch Your Cheating Partner: Ways Know If Your Spouse Cheating

Resources

• Sign Cheating: Emotional Affair Signs
• Davis Investigations, Inc: Expert Private Investigator